It seems that many people here and on other blogging networks love to write and share their political views for the world to see. I haven’t agreed with everything I have read and I’m sure there are people who have disagreed with me.
However, I do see a lot of people who feel that a viewpoint other than their own is something akin to a sin against nature or something that must be destroyed as soon as possible.
I know that I’m guilty of letting my emotion or personal opinion getting the better of me sometimes, but for the most part I try to keep it on track. Sure, my political leanings are to the left, but I don’t mind taking shots at any place on the political spectrum - show me a politician who hasn’t done something worthy of criticism and I’ll….well, it doesn’t matter what I’ll do, because they don’t exist.
With that in mind, here are some suggestions to keep in mind for entering into a political debate and wanting to be taken seriously, or at least have your opinion heard.
1) No name calling - It’ s one thing to call an opinion “stupid” or worse, it’s another to call the person who has said opinion “stupid” or worse. For example, a lot of people called Sarah Palin stupid for some of the things attributed to her during the campaign. In my opinion, there are many things she said which I believe are misguided, or even wrong. But the woman is far from an idiot. Imagine a friend of yours or even your child saying something to you which you believe wholeheartedly to be incorrect. Would you call them derogatory names? Probably not.
2)Do your research - Whenever I hear something scandalous or astounding coming out about a politician, I do two things.
First, I look at the source. Michael Moore and Rush Limbaugh, as two such examples, are both entertaining to certain groups and both have large followings. Both also have well known political leanings and as such, must not simply be believed without question.
The second thing I’ll do is look for an objective opinion, particularly when it comes to political ads. There are plenty of places out there to find out how “truthy” these are, just try googling them. Barring that, look at critiques of ads from both sides and try and judge for yourself.
3) No potty mouth - A lot of times it isn’t the message that I object to (even if I disagree with it), it’s the way the message is being conveyed. Swearing at me doesn’t show me how passionate you are so much as show me how unstable you are.
4) Vote! - You wouldn’t believe the number of times I’ve has someone strongly disagree with me, or criticize some politician/political party and when I’ve asked them whether or not they’ve voted, they say they don’t bother.
If you want me to respect and listen to your opinions when it comes to politics, you have to at least be a participant in the process